I like to keep track of an everyday toolkit of things that I use in my day-to-day life that bring me pleasure. You’ll usually hear me gushing about something on this list or something that will be added to this list.

This is not a complete list of things I use in each category. The focus is meant to be on things that I depend on or use regularly in my day-to-day life. For each category, I have other items I use for special occasions or specific use cases.

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EDC (Everyday Carry)

I rarely leave the house without all of these on me.

Wallets

I appreciate fine goods and high-quality craftsmanship, but I’ve reduced my wallet needs to 4 cases with 4 wallets:

Watches

Pens and Pencils

Wardrobe

Tops

Bottoms

Accessories

Wetshaving/Skincare

To summarize, my “skincare routine” is heavily centered around shaving, namely:

Personal Finance

Disclaimer: This section does not constitute financial advice. The following are products I like and use in my personal life.

Cash accounts

Fidelity’s Cash Management Account is the best spending account for me because I keep most of my investments at Fidelity. I followed much of the guidance in this article when setting this up. It has almost all the features I need:

However, this account does have some drawbacks. Though cash is FDIC insured, Fidelity itself is not a bank. They work with a processing bank called UMB. As a result, it doesn’t support Zelle or cash deposits. For this, I keep a separate checking account with my local big bank (Citibank) with minimal funds.

Credit cards

I used to have almost 20 cards, but I’ve simplified it down to 3 main cards and 2 backup/niche cards because I’m no longer interested in the time overhead that comes from managing more cards.

  1. Chase Sapphire Reserve (CSR): Flights, hotels, and international dining. I will also use this card for rental cars because it has primary coverage.
  2. Chase Freedom Unlimited (CFU): My US domestic catch-all card earning 3% back on dining and drugstores and 1.5% on everything else. However, this card has foreign transaction fees, so I don’t use it internationally.

More than 95% of my spending goes to these two cards. I mainly use the accumulated Chase points to transfer to partners (usually United, Southwest, or Hyatt) to book at outsized value (>=1.5 cents/point).

  1. Fidelity Rewards: My international catch-all card earning 2% cash back everywhere with no foreign transaction fees.
  2. Citi Costco: Now used for non-flight/hotel travel after the CSR revamp in 2025 as well as gas and EV charging.
  3. Amex Gold: I always keep an American Express charge card in my wallet as a backup1.

If I exit the points and miles game, my travel, dining, and fuel spend will go on the Citi Costco, and all other spend will go on the Fidelity Rewards.


  1. Without context, this is an odd stance to take. Here’s why this is critical for me:

    If a store (in-person or online) accepts American Express, my Gold card has never been declined. This was crucial during a trip to India where all Visa cards were declined specifically while trying to pay in foreign currency online (viz. booking flights on domestic Indian airlines, which charge in Indian rupees).

    Amex has a two-factor verification method called SafeKey that will email/text/push a one-time code that you can use to authorize your purchase whereas other issuers will often decline immediately. This was extremely clutch.

    Additionally, Amex charge cards have no preset spending limit (NPSL), which unlocks big purchases (e.g., jewelry, last-minute flights) and allows for maximum flexibility in times of crisis or ultimate frustration. This peace of mind alone is easily worth the $325 annual fee to me even if I don’t fully use the other benefits. ↩︎